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Today, I am going to talk about how to approach a woman you like in real life.

You’re in a college, workplace, a cafe, a mall or just about anywhere and see a girl and you like how she looks and is dressed.

You want to talk to her but you are afraid of what she will think.

And what if she will slap you in front of everyone?

(Trust me, she won’t.)

But how do you approach girls you like?

Let’s see.

The Trust of the Location

First, a lot depends upon the location of where you are.

If you are both in the same workplace, it will be easier for you to talk to her.

Why?

This is called location trust.

If you are at a marriage function, it will be very easy for you to talk to new girls there rather than talking to a girl on the street.

Why?

Same location = more trust.

Better the location, easier for her to trust you.

If you and her are in the same college, it is much easier for you to talk to her and attract her.

So, what you can do is get in good locations.

Good cafes, good hobby classes, good co-working places, good events and you get the point.

Then, you can just go to her and say hi.

And then have a normal conversation for a few minutes.

After that, just compliment her on her dress or one of her accessories.

Then see if she is interested or not.

If she is, you can ask her contacts or instagram.

Then leave.

Don’t hang on there.

Evening times are the best to interact with someone because people in general are more relaxed in the evenings.

It does not mean you should not approach in the mornings or noons, but best times are evenings.

You have to try it for yourself to see what works for you and what doesn’t work for you.

Start talking to her ASAP

Second thing is to talk to her ASAP.

If you don’t talk to her as soon as possible, someone else will.

And if you keep staring at her, you’ll be seen as a creep by her.

After that, it is game over for you.

Anything you will say after that will be used against you.

Don’t just stare like most guys do.

Go and talk to her.

I already told you how to talk to her in the beginning of this post.

When you actually talk to her, you will know if she likes you or if she doesn’t like you.

And that is exactly what we want.

We want the truth.

We don’t want to live in a fairy tale world where there is either a no or yes.

We want confirmation.

And for that, you must start talking with her at the earliest.

Your Mindset

Third and the most important thing is - whether she is suitable for you or not.

Keep this thought in your mind before you approach her.

Most guys have the mindset of whether she will like me or not.

But you should have the opposite mindset.

Whether she is suitable for you or not?

What if you don’t like her?

It can happen and it has happened to me many times.

When you have the mindset of whether she will be suitable for me or not, you will approach with confidence and an abundance mindset.

And that will change the entire game for you.

That can be a difference between getting bad results to getting exponentially good results.

Mindset is of that much importance.

That is the reason I have put together the Indian Manifestation Protocol.

It will help you manifest anything you want in life.

It is that powerful.

Even if you’re anxious about it.

When you approach anything in life, not just girls, with a positive and playful outlook, the chances of it working out increase exponentially.

So, never half ass anything.

Approach her full confidence and think whether you like her or not.

That’s it for today.

Combine the above 3 steps and see how it works out for you.

If you have any difficulty, you know where to reach out to me.

I’ll try to respond ASAP.

With love,
TTIG

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