A lot of people talk about frame here on X.

But what is frame?

It is a psychological concept that emerged from Neuro Linguistic Programming (a branch of psychology).

Frame = influence

Let’s take an example to best understand it.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/-A2133Q-5qQ

Watch the video above. It is a short 1 minute video of Kapil Sharma.

When he is joking, he uses a sense of humour to convey what he wants to say.

The female actor is trying to complain about him, but dodges the complaints by using his sense of humour.

She tries it 3 times.

He uses his sense of humour 3 times to convey that he is correct and she is not.

He is above her. She is below her.

So, she must accept his worldview because he is correct.

Sure, the show is scripted.

But this is what a frame is.

When you make the opposite person agree with you either forcefully through power or indirectly by using a sense of humour.

To make someone agree forcefully seldom works in the society we live in today.

Using a sense of humour or even better, making them question their own beliefs.

Sense of humour works like a charm when you are interacting with girls.

Because they want your frame to be higher than theirs and they love a guy with a sense of humour.

Frame shows you are superior to her or any person who you are interacting with because they agree with your worldview.

They agree with what you are saying.

Now, this also doesn’t mean that in every transaction, you make others agree with you.

People will notice it. And will ignore you after sometime if you behave like that.

You have to keep the ratio 70:30.

Make them agree to you 70% of the time and you agree 30% of the times.

This way, they will also feel validated and you are already above them in terms of frame.

When with a girl, she will test you for your frame and will say something absolutely ridiculous.

Just to see how you react.

With a girl, you should always try to maintain your frame and be whatever you believe to be.

If she feels wrong, so be it.

You always hold your worldview in front of her.

Conquer the world, my friend.

Frame by frame.

Tomorrow, we will talk about shit tests.

With Love,

TTIG

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