How to know when a girl likes you

There are many girls out there and you are thinking that no girl likes you; it is a false thinking.

I’ll tell you why.

There are thousands of girls that want to be with a guy like you.

And, there are thousands of girls that don’t want to be with a guy like you.

Because their likes are different.

As you don’t like every girl, every girl won’t be liking you.

So, why waste time on the girls that don’t like you?

Instead, you should go after the girls that do like you.

It is a better use of your time.

But now the point is, how do you know if a girl likes you, especially in the Indian scenario?

Girls are different from men.

When they like you, they won’t say it directly.

But they will for sure give you signs.

If you are able to see those signs and act upon them, you are on your way to get a girl out on a date.

Signs a girl will give you when she is interested in you

Let’s start with each sign.

I will discuss how it actually is in real life with examples.

She stares at you

The first sign that a girl will give you is she will look at you.

She won’t just look at you like a normal person.

She will literally stare at you.

The stare at you would be for more than 3-4 seconds.

And even when you catch her looking at you, she won’t stop staring at you.

If the girl is shy, she will look away for a second or two and will again look at you to confirm that you are still looking at her.

The first sign a girl will give you is staring at you.

If you catch a girl staring at you, look away from her for a second.

Then, again look at her to confirm, if she is still staring at you.

If she is, give a smile and an eyebrow flash.

She will smile back or look away - which is fine.

If she smiles back, go and talk to her.

Go and say her hi.

If she looks away, do the same thing.

Mostly, she looks away because she is shy.

This is even good.

Go and talk to her.

Staring at you is her way of telling you that she is interested in you and wants you to go and talk to her.

We’re men.

We go and initiate.

We go and talk to girls.

Rarely girls will come and talk to you.

Let’s go to the next sign.

She will move around you

If you are in a college / tuition / workplace / any other place where there are people, she will try to be as near as you.

But she is a girl.

So, she won’t directly come to you like we men do with other people.

She will try to be around you enough so you can see her and notice her.

She wants you to notice her and wants you to take the initiative and then go and talk to her.

Remember I told you, she is indirect.

That is why she behaves like this.

She wants to be wooed.

She doesn’t want to take the burden on herself.

If you are sitting at a place, she will come and sit 2 metres away from there in such a way that you can see her or notice her that she is there.

She might talk in a little louder tone to get your attention.

She might walk around and stand for a bit near you (this happens a lot in workplaces, malls and libraries).

All she is doing is trying to get your eyes on her so you can make a move.

This is her way of saying, “I am interested in you, please come and talk to me”.

She can do this consciously or unconsciously.

Go and talk to her.

Let’s move on to the next sign.

She will ask you for something

Now, this is more likely to happen in a workplace, college, or tuition because the place is common between the both of you.

When you are at a common place, there is a sense of trust between the both of you because of that place.

You will trust a random person you don’t know at your workplace rather than on the streets.

Because he or she has access to the premises, the person must be a little trustworthy.

Place plays a big role in building trust.

Same thing happens with college as well.

You are more likely to trust a random guy at a college than a random guy on the streets.

Coming to the point, she will come and ask you for a pen or a charger or anything just so you can know that she exists.

This is the best thing that can happen to you.

You can give her the thing and instantly start a conversation.

Even if you don’t know her, you can just start a conversation about the thing that she asked.

Remember, she has trusted you enough to come to you and ask you and from all the other people, she chose you.

It is because she’s interested in you.

This doesn’t happen at random in a girl’s world.

This is because she wants you to notice her.

For example, if she asks for a charger for a laptop (common nowadays), you give her and ask her what she does?

This is the best way to start a conversation because it feels natural.

She won’t feel that you are trying to seduce her, which is the best way to seduce her.

She can ask for anything else and you do the same.

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These are the basic signs any girl will give if she is interested in you.

There are many other signs you can find all over the internet like playing with her hair, laughing at your silly jokes, obeying you and so on.

Those happen but it happens after the basic signs that we have discussed in this email.

You don’t have to trust me.

Go and observe yourself.

Yours,

TTIG

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